Today is a day of reflection.
June 16th will be one year since my family moved from Summerville, SC to our current home in Illinois. To say there have been many changes is an understatement and as someone who is not very fond of change - well you can see how this could be a problem.
My husband and I have been married 20 years!! Yeah us! Our anniversary was in March - it is now May (practically June) and we still have not been out to celebrate. This brings me to problem #1 of moving - not knowing anyone. In our case we knew one other family when we moved here and I know we were lucky to have them. The last time we moved, we did not know anyone. However, we were only 3 hours away from family so in an emergency we would have help. Now we are 16 hours by car or a plane ride away so having friends that you can trust is mandatory. We help each other with rides to and from school, activities, etc so I always feel as if it is an imposition to ask them to watch the kids because they already help us so much. My son is 14 (will be 15 in June) so I know he is capable of being home alone for a couple of hours and he is more than capable of keeping an eye on his sister (10 - going on 20). I just don't know how I feel about putting him in that situation. He is in a new neighborhood, new town, new state. What if something happened? He doesn't really know our neighbors -